You Don't Have a Boyfriend Because You are Too Busy

While a relationship sounds nice, you're strapped for time Whether you're legitimately busy or just making excuses... ... You don't give men enough of your time. As nice as "instant love" would be, there's just no such thing.

Why Don't You Have a Boyfriend?

Little Women - True

The real love story

Sub Kooch Ho Sak-ee Dey! (Anything is possible with God)

This is a picture of two Dalit women. Who are Dalits? The term Dalit, means "broken people". The Dalits are the lowest caste system in India. The Caste system is a lie. I first heard about the Dalits when I listened to Share the Well, one of Caedmon's Call's recent cd's. Listening to the information in the music brought me to tears. These people are constantly being subjected to cruelty and malnutrition all because they are poor and do not own much property. They are definitely considered the "least of these". As I looked at this picture, I paid particular attention to the child. She will grow up into a life of poverty and constant rejection, all because of the caste system. These people are also considered the "untouchable and unworthy". We as Christians have a calling. We are to help those in need. We are Jesus' hands and feet. What are we doing to help others? Even if we cannot directly help, we can still pray for them. To learn more about how you can help with the dalits, you can visit www.dalitnetwork.org Or you can go to www.caedmonscall.com to see how Christian bands are helping these oppressed people. As Jesus says in Matthew 25:40, "...I tell you the truth, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for me." What an amazing verse! We should always be willing to help those in need, just like Jesus!

Meet Max...
Max is our five year old, registered, blue Chihuahua. They're called blue when they're marked like he is but really he's black, tan and has a little white on his chest and feet. We adopted Max from the animal shelter. He had been brought in when he was about 7 months old. Someone had gotten him and decided that they didn't want him because he wet all over the place. Well, what do all puppies do? They have to be housebroken and apparently, this person didn't know enough about dogs to know how to housebreak him. Anyway, we got Max and immediately he became a member of our family. Sometimes I even feel like he's my little brother! He follows me everywhere! Max is so funny. We really love him a lot. We dress him up in cute little outfits and take his picture. Here he is in a little sweather that my Mom crocheted for him. We've also put him in a fireman outfit, in an Easter basket, dressed him as a reindeer for Christmas and even put a Hawaiian lei on him. He doesn't seem to mind, in fact, I think he likes it. Some chihuahuas aren't very friendly, but Max is very easy going and would probably lick you to death if he met you. It's really funny when Max and our cat Cleo get together and play. They're like best friends. You should see them! They chase each other around the house and have the best fun. Here's a picture of Cleo. We got Cleo from a friend of my sister's. She had had Cleo for several years and then when she had a little boy, the little boy was allergic to Cleo so they had to get rid of her. Max and Cleo are so loving. They always want to be on someone's lap. I hope you enjoy meeting my pets...they're lots of company for me. Isn't it great how much love animals give us and how they give it unconditionally? They teach us a lot about the love of Christ...he loves us unconditionally too.

Plop, plop...fizz, fizz...couldn't you just imagine! I'm smiling already!

Well, I've been poked by no_average_girl. So, I poked Sob' ah, Radical One, Berrymom2005, and christfollower2. If anyone I poked needs to know what to do, here goes. You have to list 5 weird things about yourself, and then poke 4 other people. Here goes:

1.) I like to dip my french fries in honey mustard. It really tastes good!

2.) I actually don't mind when I get injured in Karate. Sick, I know, but hey...it's all an experience to me! No pain, no gain, right?

3.) I love to read stories on fanfiction.net. It's really fun, and I especially love stories about movies and books.

4.) Sometimes I'd rather play with my 8 and 6-year old nephews than talk with people my own age.

5.) I love to quote movie lines all the time. My sister does it too, so sorry Chum, you can't write this on yours! It's not too weird, but I can't think of anything else. Oh well.

Over the weekend, my dad and stepmom came down to celebrate my birthday. They picked me up on Friday night and then we went to my grandmother's house. We went out to eat at El Torero which was really good. Saturday, my grandmother took me shopping at Belk and I found a really nice outfit. It was my present from my grandmother and my aunt. Later on that night, my dad and I sat outside in the cold and talked. We talked about a lot of things, but they were mostly spiritual. I think I was being tested. I prayed as he talked and asked God to give me the right words to say to him. He told me that I was going to be asked about my faith when I got out in the world. What he didn't understand, was that I had already been questioned about my faith before. Anyway, we talked for a really long time. He asked me some questions and he mentioned some things about the "Lost Books" of the Bible and how some people believed that Jesus had human lusts. I told him that was impossible because Jesus was fully human, but also fully God and that he did not lust after things of this world. In a way, he didn't believe me. He told me that I only believe what I have been taught and only by faith do I believe it. He elaborated more on the "lost books" and said that we don't know that they aren't true and that we don't know that Jesus didn't have a wife because the Bible jumps from Jesus being young to being older. My dad said he wondered why the Bible didn't say what Jesus had done between those years of adolescence to adulthood. He said that the people who believed in the "lost books" said that the people who translated the Bible took it out because it wasn't "relevent" and my Dad said he thought it was and thought they should have left it in. I listened to what he said and put in my thoughts here and there. It was very difficult because I could feel Satan attacking me....through my own father! It was strange, but I kept praying for the right words and I kept praying that God would bind Satan and help my Dad to see the truth and to listen to me. In the end, I know the Holy Spirit spoke through me and gave me the right words to say. I felt unphased by what my Dad said, but I couldn't believe that he doubted the Bible. He told me he didn't, but his words and thoughts said otherwise. I will have to keep praying for him to become stronger and more grounded in his faith. Later on, I was reading my Bible, and I found some verses on faith. In 1 Corinthians 2:3-5 Paul says: "I was with you in weakness and in fear and in much trembling, and my message and my preaching were not in persuasive words of wisdom, but in demonstration of the Spirit and of power, so that your faith would not rest on the wisdom of men, but on the power of God." Wow! What a powerful verse! Many things became clear to me through His word. Another one I found was in 1 Corinthians 2:6-16 where it says: "Yet we do speak wisdom among those who are mature; a wisdome, however, not of this age nor of the rulers of this age, who are passing away; but we speak God's wisdom in a mystery, the hidden wisdom which God predestined before the ages to our glory; the wisdom which none of the rulers of this age has understood; for if they had understood it they would not have crucified the Lord of glory, but just as it is written,
"Things which eyes has not seen and ear has not heard, And which ear has not heard, And which have not entered the heart of man, All that God has prepared for those who love Him." For to us God revealed them through the Spirit; for the Spirit searches all things, even the depths of God. For who among men knows the thoughts of a man except which is in him? Even the thoughts of God no one knows except the Spirit of God. Now we have received, no the Spirit of the world, but the Spirit who is from God, so that we may know the things freely given to us by God, which things we also speak, not in words taught by human wisdom, but in those taught by the Spirit, combining spiritual thoughts with spiritual words. But a natural man does not accept the things of the Spirit of God for they are foolishness to him; and he cannot understand them, because they are spiritually appraised. But he who is spiritual appraises all things, yet he himself is appraised by no one. For who has known the mind of the Lord, that he will instruct Him? But we have the mind of Christ."

This was really important to me. I wrote the entire passage, because it is truth, and we, as Christians, experience this everyday. We see and know people who do not understand what we believe and people who hate us because we love the Lord. Because we have the mind of Christ, we understand why they act this way and we can also prepare ourselves for it. For everyone who reads this, I remind you that you have to be prepared, because you don't know when you are going to be asked about what you believe. Remember to pray and ask for God's wisdom, because everytime I do, the Holy Spirit gives it to me.

Love in Christ!